किसी से भी दोस्ती करे इन 7 नियम से /How to make friendship with anyone by using these 7 principles

↵"The first impression is the last impression " ye line to sbne suna hi hog per  iska mtlb kya h, iska seedha sa mtlb h ki Pehla impression banane ka second chance nhi milta, psychologist  Khte h ki jab Hum Kisi se first time milte Hain  to  samne wala   jane-anjane me hume scan kr rha hota hai or wo  phle hi मुलाकात  me decide कर लेता है कि हमें इस इंसान से किस तरह ka  relation रखना hai, So use this 7 principles and make a happy n healthy relationships.

Hey friend welcome to successinsid.org this is Rosan tripathi or aj hum apke sath 7 aise principals share karenge jiska use krke ap kisi ka v  dil jeet skte hai kyoki hum success inside  per apko winners ki qualities dene or  apke dreams ko support krne ke ly hi aate hai. 

Dosto hume  नहीं पता  आप इस blog पर kya soch kr आए hai पर hume इतना जरूर पता है इस post को पढ़ने के बाद आप हमारे next पोस्ट का इंतजार करेंगे क्योंकि aj ka पोस्ट एक बहुत अच्छी book "HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE" (हाउ टू विन फ्रेंड्स एंड इन्फ्लुएंस पीपल) per leekhi गई है . 

Dale Carnegie की  यह बुक 1936 में publish हुई थी पर Carnegie ke ye  प्रिंसिपल्स आज भी हैरान कर देने वाले रिजल्ट देते हैं, Infact is Books ke bad n sirf  dunia bhar me self  improvement ko bdhava mila blki  self improvement ko lekar or v  bhut si books  v likhi gai. 

Friends personal or professional dono life me success ke liye hume apne ass pass ke logo ko  smjhna  or unse ache se connect hona  bhut jaruri h . So Friends ye book summary  apke ly v life changing sabit ho sakti hai, specially tb jb apki communication skill v meri trh kmjor ho, So friends ek ek principle dyan se padhe. 

So friends get ready for this interesting and psychological journey - 

1. Call them  by their names -

APNA NAM KISE PSAND NHI HOTA SBKO HOTA H , APKO V HOGA MUJHE V HAI. INFACT LOG DIN RAT ITNI MEHNAT SIRF APNA NAM BNANE KE LY HI TO KRTE HAI OR YE BILKUL  SUCH H KI LOG APNA NAM DUSRO SE SUNNA BHUT PSAND KRTE H. 

AUTHOR CARNEGIE KHTE HAI AGER AP MUJHE MERE NAM SE BULA-YENGE TO MAI SMJHUNGA KI MAINE AP PER APNA PRBHAV CHODHA  HAI. DOSTO YAD RKHE HUM INSANO ME APNA NAM SUNNE KI BDI DISIRE HOTI HAI. 

SO 1ST PRINCIPLE - LOGO KO JYDA SE JYDA  UNKE NAM SE BULAYE. 

2. Don't make arguments - 

 


ARGUMENT EK AISI CHEEZ HAI  JISME  HUM HARE TO KHAIR HARE HI OR AGER HUM  JEETE TO V HUM HI HARE KYOKI ARGUMENTS HUME  EK JIDDI OR GHAMANDI PERSON KI IMAGE DETA  H. SO ISS TRH KI IMAGE NA BNAYE.



NO MATTER HUMARE PASS KITNI V KNOWLEDGE HO LOG BILKUL PSAND NHI KRTE KI HUM UNHE JRA SA V NEECHA DIKHAYE, BHLE HI WO KITNE V  GLT KYO N HO.


OR HA AGER KOI SAMNE SE ARGUMENT KRTA HAI TO AP HAR
MAN LE "HA YAR HO SKTA HAI TU HI SHI  HO OR M GLT " IS SE THIRD PARTY KE SAMNE APKI IMAGE DAMAGE  NHI HOGI.



SO 2ND PRINCIPAL VIVAD BILKUL NA KRE ISSE SIRF APKI IMAGE DAMAGE HOGI OR KUCH NHI. 

3- Be interested with other people-

LOG DUSRO KI NHI APNI LIFE KI BATE KRNA JYDA PSND KRTE HAI SO AGER HUMCHHATE H KI SAMNE WALA HUM ME INTREST DIKHAYE TO SABSE PEHLE HUME SAMNE WALE ME INTREST DIKHANA HOGA. 

Austrian neurologist sigmon freedon

Iss kla me itne mahir the ki log unke sath  apni private emotions or experience v share kr dete the . 

AGER HUM SIRF APNI HI  BATE KRTE RHENGE TO KOI V INSAN  BORE HO JAYEGA . SAMNE WALE SE USKE BARE ME PUCHE, USSE KYA PSND H KYA NHI, USKI LIFE KAISI CHAL RHI HAI AND THEN WO APSE WHI prsn KRENGE FIR AP APNE BARE ME ARAM SE  BTAYE. 

OR YE SBSE ACHI TRICK HAI KISI KO APNE BARE ME BTANE KA KI AP EXACTLY KYA HO. 

Childhood friendship

MAINE IS PRINCIPAL KA USE APNE EK CLASSMET ( JO THODI ALG THI) PER KIYA THA AND WE ARE BEST FRIENDS STILL TODAY ,  PER YAD RHE  QUESTION ITNE JYDA V NA HO KI AISA LGE APP INTERVIEW LE RHE HO MERI TRH H.

OR HA AGER APSE KOI NORMAL SE JYDA QUESTIONS KR RHA / RHI H 

TO AP KHUSH HO SKTE HAI . KOI H JO AP ME V INTRESTED HAI. 

 SO 3RD PRINCIPAL KHTA HAI INTRESTING  NHI INTRESTED BNO.

4. Give a genuine compliments - 

THAT'S SO IMPORTANT POINT kyoki 

BTANE KI JRURAT NHI KI AS A HUMAN HUM TARIF KE KITNE BHUKHE HOTE HAI SPECIALLY TB JB HUM TARIF DESERVE KARTE HO . 

HER INSAN ME KUCH N KUCH  SPECIAL HOTA USSE CHEK KRE OR COMPLIMENT DE. KUCH NHI TO SAMNE WALE KE BEHAVIOUR, UNKE BAT KRNE KE TRIKE, HAIR STYLE  OR DRESSING SENSE  ETC  KISI V CHEEZ PER COMPLIMENT DE SKTE HAI . 

PER REMEMBER HAMARA  COMPLIMENT genuine (real)  HO NHI TO LOG APKO BNAWTI  SMJHENGE,

Example - 
AGER KOI ACHA GATA/GATI  HAI TO SIRF ITNA KHE "TUM ACHA GATE/GATI  HO" USSE KISI PLAYBACK SINGER SE CAMPARE BILKUL NA KRE WRNA LOG HUME FAKE HI SMJENGE.

SO 4TH PRINCIPAL LOGO KO GOOD COMPLIMENT DE PER REAL. 

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5. ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES - 

AGER APKO LGE KI APSE KOI MISTAKE HUI H TO APP APNI GLTI JLDI SE EXCEPT KR LE ISSE SAMNE WALA SMJH JYEGA KI AP ME EGO NHI H OR AP DUSRO KO APNE SE JYADA IMPORTANCE DETE HO . 

Carnegie ki real story - 

EK BAR  DALE CARNEGIE APNE  GHAR KE PASS KE EK JUNGLE ME  APNE DOG KO LEKER GHUMANE GYE WAH JUNGLE SUNSAN THA TO CARNEGIE NE SOCHA KYO N KUTTE KO KHULA CHODH DIYA JYE, OR AISA HI KIYA, 

ITNE ME HI WNHA EK PULISH OFFICER AA GYA OR PULISH OFFICER NE KHA AP ITNE LAPRWAH KAISE HO SKTE H OR UNHE WARRING DI  KI AGER DUSRI BAR AISA HUA TO WO CARNEGIE OR UNKE KUTTE KO COURT TK LEKE JAYEGA. 

ADAT SE MJBUR CARNEGIE NE KUCH DIN TO RULE FOLLOW KIYA OR FIR SE WHI  PURANI LINE PKD LEE OR EK DIN FIR SE USSI PULISH OFFICER NE DEKHA KI CARNEGIE NE APNE KUTTE KO KHULA CHHOD RKHA H. 

CARNEGIE NE IS BAR ALAG RUKH APNAYA OR KHA "SORRY OFFICER MUJHE APKE WARNING KE BAD V AISA NHI KRNA CHAHIYE THA SO SORRY"  OFFICER NE KHA KOI BAT NHI, YE EK CHOTA SA DOGGY HI H, KISI KO NHI KTEGA,


CARNEGIE NE KHA. -  YE GILHRIYO KO TO HURT KR HI SKTA HAI N,
 ITNE ME OFFICER NE KHA - LGTA  APNE MERI BATO KO KUCH  JAYDA HI SERIOUSLY LE LIYA KUCH DER ME AP APNE GHAR CHALE JAYENGE M APNE OR HUM DONO ISS BAT  BHUL  JAYENGE . 

YNHA AUTHOR NE APNI GLTI EXCEPT KI TO OFFICER NE V KINDNESS OR HUMBLE FACE DIKHAYA. SO MORAL OF THE STORY YE H  KI AGER APSE KOI GLTI HUI HO TO USE JLDI EXCEPT KR LO, ISSE APKE OPPONENT (virodhi ) KO APKO SUNNANE YA PUNISH KRNE KA CHANCE NHI MILEGA OR 100 ME SE 99 TIME SAMNE WALA APKO MAF KR DEGA WO V BINA KISI VIVAD KE .

SO 5TH PRINCIPAL IS EXPECT YOUR MISTAKES QUICKLY  OR PULISH WALO SE LDAI NA BAVA NA

Enjoy your frienship

6. DON'T  BE CRITICIZED ANYONE - 

Hanson Salve  kehte h ki " hum insan jitne hi tareef ke bhukhe hai  utni hi ninda se dur bhagte h" Alochna krne se koi sudhrta nhi h blki wo apne apko  protect krne lgta  h bhane bnane lgta h to kisi ko kbhi v criticise na kre specially publicly. 

world famous psychologist B F SNEKER ne apne experiments me yh paya h ki " ek reward pane wala jaanwar (animal) ek punishment pane wale jaanwar ki tulna me, 

dugni tezy se sari cheeze seekhta h or

bad me kafi research  me paya gya ki yhi bat hum humans per v ye puri trh lagu hoti hai. So don't be criticize any one specially jinse hume achi relationship rkhni ho. 

So 6th principle is don't tell them they are wrong jruri ho to apni bate alg trike se khe.

7. Always smiling - 

Iska kya mtlb  h pura din smile kro bilkul nahi , Iska seedha sa  mtlb h ki jb v kisi se mile to smile karte hue mile kyoki humare words nhi humare actions bolte h ki hum unke bare me kya sochte hai. 

hum insan unke trf jyda attract hote h jo hume dekh ke smile krte h ek baby v jb hume dekh ke suddenly smile krta h to hume us per phle se jyda pyar ata hai . So next time kise mile to ek  happiness ke sath mile, log apko phle se jyda like karenge,

Or ha  smile tb kre jb apka samne wale se  sath eye contact ho ya bate  ho, pure time kisi ko dekh ke  smile kroge to fir bhaiya ap hi  jano. 

So principal N.7 keep smiling and  help to create a positive environment. 

Post summary - 

FRIENDS YE TO THE  7 PRINCIPLE JO APKE PERSONAL OR PROFESSIONAL DONO LIFE ME ACHE RELATIONS BUILD KRNE ME HELPFUL HONGE, FRIENDS YAD RHE YE SIRF EK BOOK KE PRINCIPLES NHI  BLKI SCIENTIFIC FACTS V HAI JO 99% TIME  ACHE RIJULTS DETE HI HAI AGER INKA USE SHI SE HUA TO, OR 

HA YE BOOK HUME CHMCHA BN NE KE LY NHI KHTA YE BUS ITNA KHTA KI DUSRO KI RESPECT KRE WO V APNE SELF RESPECT KE SATH. 

EK OR BAR  ISSE DEKH LE - 

1- JYDA SE JYDA DUSRO KO NAM SE BULAYE. 

2 - ARGUMENTS BILKUL NA KRE. 

3- SAMNE WALE ME INTREST DIKHAYE. 

4- LOGO KO APPRECIATE KRE. 

5- APNI GLTI EXCEPT KRE. 

6- SAMNE WALE KO CRITICIZE NA KRE. 

   

7 - UNSE EK SMILE  KE SATH MILE

SO FRIENDS I HOPE APKO YE POST HELPFUL LGA HO OR  AP INKA USE KRKE APNI LIFE KO OR V Khubsurat OR EASY BNA LENGE. 

 FRIENDS AGER APKO IS POST JRA V HELP MILI HO TO ISE JYDA SE JYDA FRIENDS KE SATH SHARE KRE OR UNKI V PROBLEMS SOLVE KRE HO SKTA KOI APKI WJH KISI KI LIFE ME KOI CHANGE AA  JYE OR 

COMMENT ME JRUR BTAYE APKO YE POST KAISA LGA KYOKI AGER HUME PTA HO KI APKO KYA PSAND OR KYA NHI TO HUM APKE LY OR V POWERFUL POST LANE ME SAFAL HONGE. 

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